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I encourage you to talk or write some more to your friend who is in bereavement. Say as much or as little as you feel comfortable saying. You can just send her a copy of what you've written on v.com, if that feels right. You are still grieving, too. Honest, caring communication could be very therapeutic for both of you.

I offer you both my condolences.

I am so sorry. I know what you mean, though. I was at a loss for words when my friend's mother passed away.